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Here are 10 frequently asked questions (FAQs) about how to talk to your teen about recognizing domestic violence, along with their answers:
Begin the conversation by discussing healthy relationships. You can say, “I want to talk about what
healthy relationships look like, and what to do if things ever become unhealthy or unsafe. Do you know
what domestic violence is?”
Explain that warning signs include controlling behavior, extreme jealousy, isolation from friends or
family, threats, physical harm, emotional manipulation, and verbal abuse. Teach them that no form of
abuse is acceptable.
Let your teen know that domestic violence can be emotional, verbal, or psychological as well. You might
say, “Domestic violence isn’t just about hitting. It can also be when someone constantly puts you down,
controls you, or makes you feel afraid.”
Be patient and provide examples of healthy versus unhealthy behaviors. You can say, “In a healthy
relationship, both people respect each other’s boundaries. Abuse is never normal, even if some people
say it’s just how relationships are.”
Teach them to trust their instincts. Encourage them to pay attention to how they feel. You might say, “If
someone makes you feel scared, controlled, or constantly anxious, it’s important to recognize that those
are red flags.”
Stay calm, listen without judgment, and offer support. You can say, “I’m really glad you told me. Let’s
talk about ways we can keep you safe and find help. There are resources we can turn to.”
Let them know that domestic violence can affect anyone, regardless of their gender or background. You
can say, “Both men and women can be victims or perpetrators of abuse. No one deserves to be
mistreated.”
Teach them to listen, be non-judgmental, and encourage their friend to seek help. You can say, “If a
friend comes to you, let them know you’re there for them. Encourage them to talk to a trusted adult or
a professional.”
Yes, explaining the cycle of abuse helps them understand why it’s hard for victims to leave. You can
explain, “Sometimes, abusive relationships go through a cycle of tension building, an abusive incident,
and then a ‘honeymoon’ phase where the abuser apologizes. It’s important to recognize this pattern
Provide them with resources like domestic violence hotlines, local shelters, or school counselors. Let
them know help is always available. You might say, “If you or someone you know ever needs help, there
are places you can reach out to, like the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-SAFE).”
These FAQs can help parents open a meaningful and educational dialogue with their teens about
recognizing and addressing domestic violence, fostering awareness and safety in relationships.